This season of Love Is Blind has left many feeling slightly disappointed, and the finale reflected that sentiment. Out of five couples who entered the experiment engaged, only one pair, Taylor Haag and Daniel Hastings, made it all the way to marriage, emphasizing the significant effort required to complete this journey.
The other three couples faced pivotal moments where the women decided to end the relationships at the altar. Virginia Miller, Sara Carton, and Monica Danus recognized persistent social disconnects and communication barriers that were insurmountable. Meanwhile, the men, with the exception of Joey Leveille, were caught off guard by these decisions. Ben Mezzenga and Devin Buckley were left heartbroken; however, reflecting on the season, it became clear that their expectations of a successful relationship neglected their own shortcomings. Their role as “yes” men seemed to stem from a desire to please rather than a commitment to true partnership, leading to their downfall.
The Story of the “Yes” Men on Love Is Blind Season 8
Among the couples who made it to the altar but ultimately did not tie the knot, a common thread emerged. Sara struggled with her partner Ben’s social beliefs. Instead of navigating this complex issue together, he merely acquiesced, saying “yes, and.” This lack of depth became clear as Sara’s research revealed significant red flags regarding Ben’s commitment to understanding his faith and its social implications. His quick return to his prayer circle post-rejection indicated a priority for his church over personal growth and understanding. Sara realized she could not help him evolve in a direction that aligned with her values.
For Virginia, the discussion of a prenup seemed like a simple hurdle, but deeper issues loomed. Devin’s indifference to discussions about important social issues raised concerns about his true beliefs. His easygoing response style mirrored Ben’s, avoiding conflict instead of addressing potential future problems. It wasn’t until the reunion that Virginia uncovered unsettling truths about Devin’s political stance. His reluctance to be open about his views in front of the camera hinted at a deeper, more troubling outlook.
Monica and Joey’s relationship appeared solid, yet Monica felt Joey wasn’t fully invested, leading her to withdraw on their wedding day. Their communication barriers revealed that their bond may have been more platonic than romantic. The absence of expressions of love and reported intimacy gaps made it clear that what they shared might not be the foundation for a lasting marriage.
The Women Showed Strength This Season
This season showcased women who embraced their empowerment by choosing to prioritize their futures over conforming to societal expectations. The four women, including Lauren O’Brien, who left the experiment without marrying did so with grace and strength, contrasting sharply with the men who seemed to lack resolve. The men often played to their partners’ desires, ensuring their compliance without showing true conviction.
In the end, the men bore full responsibility for their own outcomes. The women’s concerns expressed during the season are likely to have escalated into more significant issues had any of the relationships continued post-filming. This shift in control during Season 8 highlights a notable gender imbalance. Did the men join the show for love, or was it merely for the allure of social media fame that Love Is Blind could provide? The women showed remarkable strength and self-awareness, taking charge of their narratives.
Love Is Blind is available to stream on Netflix.
