Pension Considerations During Divorce: What You Need to Know
Do not ignore a pension when getting a divorce as some can be worth more than the family home. (Image: Getty)
The Overlooked Asset: Understanding Pension Value in Divorce
During a divorce, many individuals are often focused on dividing tangible assets like the family home. However, pensions can represent a substantial financial asset, sometimes exceeding hundreds of thousands of pounds. Experts estimate that as much as £4 billion in pension entitlements go unclaimed in divorce settlements every year.
According to Bhavna Radia, a former family solicitor and founder of the Divorce Lounge, many women hesitate to engage in discussions regarding their spouse’s pension for fear of being perceived as overly demanding. She states, “Women are worried it will make them look greedy.”
Statistics Highlighting the Trend
Recent data indicates that in 2022, approximately 120,000 couples divorced in England, Wales, Northern Ireland, and Scotland, with nearly 42% of marriages ultimately ending in separation, as reported by the Office for National Statistics. The Institute and Faculty of Actuaries (IFoA) noted an increase in divorces among those aged 65 and above, further emphasizing the necessity for comprehensive financial planning during this life change.
Why Pensions Are Crucial
Research conducted by Scottish Widows highlights that women who divorce later in their careers could miss out on upwards of £77,000 in pension savings by retiring without considering pension assets in their settlements. This figure indicates a significant financial setback, contributing to gender pension gaps, especially if pensions from civil service or other stable careers are overlooked.
As Jeremy Hughes from the Local Government Association points out, addressing pension splits can play a critical role in reducing the gender pension gap.
The Fear Factor: Why People Hesitate
Many individuals, particularly women, may feel uncomfortable discussing pensions with their exes, fearing that such inquiries may appear insatiable or greedy. One unnamed family law solicitor mentioned instances where she had to strongly advocate for her clients to pursue a fair share of their former partner’s pension benefits. In one notable case, a woman initially inclined to settle for a family home worth £200,000 was successfully persuaded to pursue a pension sharing order, yielding a share of her husband’s pension, valued at over £1 million.
Understanding Pension Splitting Options
When negotiating a divorce settlement, there are several methods to split pensions:
- Offsetting: Exchange the value of a pension for other assets or cash.
- Attachment or Earmarking: Entitles the individual to a portion of the ex-partner’s pension but may require waiting until their ex retires.
- Pension Sharing: Benefits are split at the time of divorce, either remaining with the same provider or transferred to a different pension scheme.
The State Pension and Divorce
In cases involving an additional state pension, couples may receive a pension sharing order from the court. This can only occur for individuals born before specific dates (6 April 1951 for men and 1953 for women).
Resources for Financial Guidance
For those navigating a divorce, free assistance and resources are available through government websites such as Moneyhelper and the Money and Pensions Service (MAPS). These platforms provide crucial financial guidance for individuals considering or undergoing divorce.
Conclusion
Understanding the significance of pensions in divorce is paramount. Engaging in open discussions about financial entitlements can help avoid future regrets. Couples are encouraged to thoroughly review their financial positions, including pension assets, to secure a fair and equitable resolution during the divorce process.

Pensions can be included in a divorce settlement and may be worth a £1 million or more. (Image: Getty)
